damn good question. the ceramic wheels spool faster but are more fragile under high boost. I wonder myself as I'm in the same boat (with an R32 GTR). In theory, the wheels will fail and the bits and pieces will shoot out the exhaust. The bad part is if any shattered turbine bits get sucked into the intake (and thus into the engine).
Anyways, the hope is that they will last until I've got the quid to put in some steel turbine BB turbos (N1, GTSS, or GT2530)...knock on wood!